When someone loses a veteran spouse or parent, the last thing they need is confusion. But that’s often what they face.
I’ve heard it time and again: “I didn’t even know I could apply.”
Or worse—“I tried, but I sent in the wrong thing.”
Survivor benefits like Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC), burial allowances, or education programs can make a huge difference. But first, you’ve got to know where to go—and what to ask for.
Here’s how to take the first few steps:
1. Start at VA.gov
Search for “survivor benefits.” You’ll find an overview, including DIC, pension, and burial assistance. The site also links directly to the forms you’ll need.
2. Get help from a VSO
Veteran Service Officers are trained to walk survivors through the application process—at no cost. They’ll help you gather documents, understand eligibility, and avoid mistakes that delay your case.
3. Know your timeline
In some cases, filing within one year of the veteran’s death can preserve the earliest possible effective date. Don’t wait too long to start asking questions.
4. Gather proof now
Even if you’re not sure what benefit you qualify for, start collecting documents: marriage certificate, DD-214, death certificate, prior VA letters. These will all be needed.
You don’t have to memorize every rule. You just have to know where to go and who to trust.
Getting the right help can make all the difference. And the sooner you find it, the smoother your path will be.
